Sooner or later, your little baby grows into a toddler, they become more and more independent. The diapers will become something of the past soon because your little toddler needs to be potty trained!
It’s a whole new phase in their lives, and exciting too! For the parents, it’s quite a complex process, and it can be tricky, but all can be done with loads of patients, and love.
Potty training can be worst, but it’s also a chance for your toddler to grow, gain confidence, and have some quality time with mom or dad. This can be a bonding experience for both you and your child, but which is the right time frame for potty training?
Are you child ready?
Every child is different. Your little one should be ready to learn to use the toilet when they start recognizing when they are urinating or having a bowel movement. A toddler who stays dry for an hour or two at a stretch, and occasionally awakes without wetness, is physically ready for potty training. I also believe parents should sense it. Don’t rush things by starting potty training your little one too early. Make sure they are ready.
Potty training takes time but how long?
How Long Does Potty Training Take? Find out…
Toddlers’ potty training is not an overnight task. Some kids take longer than others. It also depends on the kids’ health condition. It should take about three to six months but can take more or less time for some children. Make sure you don’t start too early because the process tends to take longer. Keep them involved in the process, like for example:
Take them on a shopping trip, to choose their own potty. It will make them more excited about using their potty. When looking for a potty, consider three important features: safety, size, and simplicity.
The right size seat will let your child’s bottom rest comfortably and solidly on the seat, with her feet firmly on the floor or stool. Let them choose where they want to put their potty in the bathroom. You might keep the second one in your child’s bedroom or playroom.
Your little one needs to be relaxed all the time, keep that in mind.
Keep Them Calm If They Nervous
If your child seems nervous about using the potty, try to keep him calm by singing or reading to them. We have to keep calm, to let them relax. It is their first experience. It is a huge and new experience for them!
You might even give them a book with some pictures in it as well, to make them relax, while sitting on the potty. Praise them. Give them a little hug to let them know they doing well in the potty training every time they used the potty.
Tell them things like “you doing a great job” and give them a “high five” Offer them small rewards. The best time for potty training is probably at night before they go to bed, and in the morning when they get up. To avoid little accidents you might take them to the potty during the night. Although it’s not very nice for a parent to wake them! It becomes easier when they older.
Potty Training An older Child
As they grow older, it should become easier for both parent and child, but there is still a long journey ahead. Dads may find it easier to teach little boys and moms for the little girls. I’m sure some little girls will prefer mom.
When your little one using an adult toilet, always give them a stool for their feet to keep them comfortable. Little boys need more time. He must learn how to pee sitting first, and then how to do it standing, and both when he needs to poo. When your little boy is ready peeing standing up, you can start teaching him how to aim.
Sometimes, kids find it hard to pass a bowel movement. Reading a book, or watching a cartoon while sitting on the pot can help them relax. You can even give them a stuffed animal to keep them busy. Be patient, don’t rush things, for some kids it takes longer to potty train.
Don’t punish your little one for a mistake he makes while potty training, added pressure will not help them learn faster, it will rather scare them. Avoid clothes that are hard to take off. Kids who are potty training need to be able to undress themselves.
Make sure all caregivers including baby sitters, grandparents and other members of the house follows the same routine and use the same names for body parts and bathroom acts.
We don’t want to confuse our little ones. Always remind you, kids, to wash their hands after using the toilet. Explain to them why it is important to wash their hands. Make sure they can reach the water. An unhappy or nervous child will keep on making accidents.
Read the following, it is extremely important.
Just because you want your child to potty train, that doesn’t mean it’s going to happen if it’s not your child’s developmental or emotional agenda, Explains Lisa Asta, M.D, a clinical professor of pediatrics at the University of California, San Fransisco, and spokesperson for the American Academy of Pediatrics.
Parents should not rush their kids out of diapers, because of another baby on the way. It’s a natural process. You can’t force it. Don’t fix a timeline for how long it should take your little one to train. Some potty-train is faster than others.
Don’t show disappointment when your child doesn’t get it right the first time. Never compare one to the other. All of them potty-train own their own way and time.
Potty training is a milestone for your child. Do your best to remain positive and calm. It’s a learning process for them, it takes a lot of practice for your little ones, but they will succeed with your help. With rewards, Your child will only focus on the price, especially if it is a toy they love! You don’t want an anxious and frustrated child. For most of the kids, praise is rewarding enough. Patients during potty training are a must! Parents who rush the process end up having more accidents and then more negative moments and that’s not a good way to be with your child.
Never punish your little one for something they don’t have complete control over. Avoid showing your frustration. Remember your child can read your facial expression, you don’t want them developing a fear for potty training.
Bedwetting at night is normal and in most cases will resolve on its own. Just encourage your child more to get him back on track. You can use overnight training pants and a waterproof mattress cover until he can holding his bladder while sleeping.
Once children have figured out the general process for getting themselves on the potty on time, and actually peeing and pooping in the potty, they still will need help in completing other potty tasks for example learning to wipe themselves clean. With the help of mom and dad, everything will be under control on time, as long as they love and care for their little ones, during this potty training period.
Love Them, Care For Them And Be Patient
In the end, if you learn you, child, the right way from the beginning, he or she will grow up remembering all the love, caring and patients they had from their parents, and they will do the same with their children and other people.
Successful children become successful adults, who have high levels of self-esteem and self-worth. They enjoy learning new things and being with those they love. They have good character, morals, and values. Believe it or not, all this starts at home.
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